10 ways to use butter during six

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Lube is the insecure hero of sex. It's galaxy at the brain level, because it's so obvious, yet so brilliant, and when you know about it, you'll think back on time before making the ugly "before year".

For some reason, lubricants have this fuddy-duddy reputation as something that is only for people who have "dried up". But there is absolutely no truth in it. Lube, with all its glory, is for everyone – like you, everyone should use it several times than not. And not only use it, but uses it creatively.

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No shade, but if you are new to the lubricating world, there are some things you need to know. First, lubricants can be made from four different materials: water, oil, petroleum or silicone. Water-based is the safest option if you use condoms (because it will not break down rubber), plus it can easily be washed away from your bodies, sheets, regardless of post-coitus.

Silicone based lubrication is excellent for shower or pool hookups and anal sex because it usually stays slicker longer and will not be washed in water. Just know that some silicone-based lubricants can break down condoms, so use a backup control method and communicate clearly with your STI partner.

Now for the fun stuff: Here are 10 ways you probably are not but completely use lubricants. Go out and enjoy the happy ride.

              1. Use it before the gender even happens. Lube has this reputation as something you enter from the bench during penetrating sex when a partner has a harder to keep his own lubrication, and this is a total of BS. Help break this taboo by bringing your new smart friend during the foreplay. Have a partner put some in your palm and grind your vulva and labia against it for a new twist on a hand job for women
                1. 2. Use it for a heat massage. The first rule of using warming lubricants (it warms up with body contact or friction) is to never use it without telling your partner first (unless you want them to think you've just put Icy Hot in their private parts). Other than that, there are really no rules-go ahead and warm up things! A proposal? Use some dolls on your partner's (or your own) nipple nipple nipples that are literally hotter than ever before.

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                  3. Use it to strengthen his orgasm. During six with a male partner, some drip drops on his perineum AKA drop the extra-sensitive stain between his scrap and anus. Just before he orgasms, tap your finger on the lubrication spot to change the holy game and send him over the edge.

                  4th Use it when you masturbate. Yes, even sex with yourself can be improved with lubricants. If you have dry hands, you do not need to use a moisturizing lotion that can contain unwanted chemicals, especially because you do not want these ingredients inside you. Apply only a few drops of water-based butter to your finger before moving for a softer feeling.

                  5. Use it when you masturbate with a vibrator. Imagine that your favorite vibrator's electrifying pulse hits all the correct spots. Now imagine using the same toy to gently slide your clitoris with the same power, but a completely different, more fluid feeling. A dirt of butter on a vibrator is a total game changer. Just be careful: If your sex toys are made of silicone, you definitely want to use an aqueous lubricant, as silicone lubricants can impair soft rubber.

                  6. Use it under vaginal intercourse, obvi. There is no wrong way to use butter during intercourse. You can apply it directly to your body, or to your penis or condom yourself. My personal rule of thumb is to start with a dime-size dollop and work from there. Sure, you can encounter a point where it's too much (he glides everywhere, it's a lot of drinking on the sheets), but it's easy to remedy with a paper towel. You do not want to reduce All friction, but that threshold is personal to everyone and you know it when you know it.

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                  7. Use it inside the condom. First, no guy will ever whine about how to use a condom "ruining six". Buck up, my husband. But if your partner is looking for more ways to increase the feeling while protecting, Eric Garrison, sexologist and author of Mastering Multiple-Position Sex, have a suggestion "Many guys complain that a condom reduces the feeling," said Garrison earlier Cosmopolitan.com. "Adds a little lube ups sensitivity, he feels inside the latex." If you put a drop or two inside the rubber before you roll it out, it may unlock an emotion, and it should certainly be enough to turn it off.

                  8. Use it during anal intercourse (obvi). While you may encounter a limit of "yes too much" during vaginal intercourse, the threshold will be much lower with anal sex because your change does not create your own lubricant to make things smooth and slippery, unlike your vagina. SO LOAD IT ON IT! In the case of some butts, too much lubricants and precautions are never enough.

                  9. Use it during a blow job. This may sound contraindicated, but it's true! Sex therapist Gina Ogden, doctor, author of Return of desire, previously explained: "Women often use saliva, but it can be difficult to gather enough. A flavored butter provides enough moisture so the jaw does not get so tired." So there are you

                  10. Use it for a sexy massage. Why not try a body-proof butter under unsexual pretense? Some squirts can make a back massage from relaxing to "holy hell, your mess is electrifying, can we have sex now?"

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