Do you marry him – 24 characters you are with the man you should marry


  1. Nothing about your current relationship gives you anxiety. Not to say that relationships do not take work and go through good and bad times. But none of the anxiety you've had in past relationships – about how your futures adjust, or how much he likes you compared to how much you like him – are present. You feel safe and secure in this relationship, for that is safe and secure.
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      2. He is susceptible to feedback. There is not much you would change about him, but when you tell him something, he bothered you, he listened and tried to get better. And you do the same to him.

      3. You are not ashamed to talk about how happy you are around friends. This is not a relationship that you constantly crawl with the group text or over the brunch. When you talk about this guy you are talking about a good thing that he did recently, or how nice your weekend was. You're in love, and you're so damn happy about it!

      4. You trust that he is doing your business for you. It may seem small, but a guy who can pick up the thing you forgot in the grocery store (without complaining) or grab the laundry that you continue to neglect is genuine marriage material.

      5. He feels quite comfortable as your plus-one in all situations. Working drinks that you already know are getting stiff and awkward? No problem. Best friend's birthday dinner where he knows you're probably going to be too busy to actually hang out with just him? Sounds good! He is supportive and happy to be around you, and would never bother you to leave an event that you brought him, just because he would rather be at home on the couch.

      5th He always boast about you. If you get a campaign at work or even win concert tickets, he can not resist telling everyone you hang out before even going to mention it. Because he is your biggest fan (probably next to your mother).

      6. He makes a sacrifice for you – and you're happy to do the same for him. He moves cities to live with you if you get a new job or finish primary school. You are happy to make the next step for one of his possibilities.

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      7. He shares the same values ​​as you. You know you want children and expect to share childcare equally. Or maybe you know you want children and he wants to take extended paternity leave. Perhaps you have also agreed that you will have 45 minutes to yourself to go to the gym every day, or are you planning to buy a home and move to the suburbs in five years. You know you're on the same page with things that matter to you because you've discussed them.

      8. Even after years together he still makes small knighty things for you. Like open doors for you or carry you to your doorstep when your feet hurt after wearing high heels all day and you just can not bear to go one step further.

      9. He does not try to change you. He knows you are more beautiful than him, that you always need a pet tax and can not cook to save your life, and everything is okay by him.

      10. When you're thinking of marrying him, the best is not the wedding, it's the thought of spending your life together. The wedding is fun, but you can not wait for the two weeks right after you get a honeymoon.

      11. You survived a long distance relationship. It was hard and scary, but you love each other so much that you could make the necessary victims to manage it with a single goal in mind: living in the same place and being together when it was over.

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      12. "I miss you" is not just a sweet thing you say. It's a reality. Although it has not been so long (like two hours) since you saw each other.

      13. You do not like having a roommate and love to have your own space, but you still prefer to live with him. You look forward to the end of the day, not because you will finish the job, but because you will see him again.

      14. He is your go-to person when you have a story to share, about work, about friends, about something. You used to tell your parents and friends about all these things, but now you do not call them as much as you used. They do not mind because they see how lucky you are.

      15. You are comfortable and planning things for six months or a yearinto the future. You are not worried you have to cancel airline tickets or say you will not need a plus-after all. You feel safe in your relationship.

      16. You can cry in front of him without feeling embarrassed. He knows when to worry and when you're just stuck in a movie movie.

      17. When your friends complain about their significant others or guys, they have gone out, you get silent because you do not have much to contribute. You do not want to brag, but you just do not have to deal with any of that nonsense because your significant others are good for you.

      18. He is close to your family, and he is made sure that you have come to know him. He calls your father or grandmother without a doubt. It is only meaningful that you go to his brother's birthday party, even if he is not there.

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      19. He cares about your friends. If one of them has a bad day, he suggests you go for a while with her or invite her to join you two to dinner. If he did not hear someone's name for a while, he asks how she does.

      20. He lets you ventilate. Sometimes when something frustrates you just have to go over it over and over again. He does not get angry with this, and he disapproves of your apologies. The only thing that bothered him about the situation is that you are upset and he wishes you were not.

      21. He says out of the blue that you look hot. And it's on the day you did not dry your hair or put on makeup or even swap your T-shirt and shirts.

      22. You can do things like traveling together without struggling all the time. We have all seen (or been) the tragic couple who fight over where to have lunch at the airport so bad that one of them turns to tears and puts her shades indoors and is over three places in the terminal. You can do sad things with your S.O. without all these battles.

      23. He plans activities that he knows you will enjoy. He does not depend on you to be responsible for everything, and he remembers you said you would go to the new restaurant or museum exhibition.

      24th He works hard at his job, but you are his priority. If you ask him to go to an event that is important to you, he is not afraid to leave the office to accompany you. He will figure out a way to get his job done just as you would do for him.

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